Embrace ritual with simple yet powerful practices that slow us down to honor and mark the real moments in our lives - from the loss of a parent to the birth of a child, from grieving a pet to celebrating coming out of the closet.

Product Code: 9369
ISBN: 9781982170943
Format: Paperback / softback
Publisher: Simon Element
Pages: 464
Published Date: 01/03/2023
Availability:In stock
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Price: $19.99

Embrace the power of ritual with simple yet “powerful” (Kim Chestney, author of Radical Intuition and founder of IntuitionLab) practices that slow us down to honor and mark the real moments in our lives - from the loss of a parent to the birth of a child, from grieving a pet to celebrating coming out of the closet.

Life has many transitions: A baby is born. A child leaves for college. A marriage. A divorce. A death. We all experience moments of profound change, but what do we do to mark those moments? How do we become mindful of these events and imbue them with purpose and meaning? Could our lives be better, richer, and more resilient if we had more practical resources and rituals to honor, sanctify, and make sense of these transitions?

Day Schildkret, artist and author behind the international Morning Altars movement, believes that what we need is ritual. Rituals are the rhythms and traditions that give us a sense of stability in the face of uncertainty by reminding us that there’s always something we can do, say or make that conjures awe, contentment, and gratitude. They give us a way to acknowledge through our actions that, as life changes, we too must change.

Offering ways to make these moments special and sacred, Hello, Goodbye teaches you to not fear uncertainty, but instead participate fully and creatively in life’s inevitable changes, including:
-Birth of a child
-Moving and new homes
-Divorce
-Empty nesting
-Retirement
-Death anniversary
-Health crises

Containing over 75 hands-on ritual instructions, informed by hundreds of interviews, and filled with beautiful illustrations, inspirational story-telling, potent questions, and experienced wisdom, Hello, Goodbye is “certain to become a forever reference and treasured, faithful companion” (Kimbery Ann Johnson, author of Call of the Wild and The Fourth Trimester) for life’s many milestones, perfect for those looking to find meaning in change and embrace the transformative thresholds of our lives.

Hello, Goodbye is a “direct and moving” (Rabbi Jill Jammer, PhD, author of The Jewish Book of Days: A Companion for All Seasons) guide we all need to navigate life’s uncertainties with grace, meaning, and intention, perfect for fans of Krista Tippet, Priya Parker, and Elena Brower.


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Contents

Foreword
Hello.
Introduction


What They Left Behind
A Ritual Recollects
Identifying Thresholds
A Ritual Cookbook
Many Voices
Ritual, Not Routine
Bearing and Being Witness
Preparing Ritual Time and Space
In Conclusion

Rituals for Every Day
Morningtime
The Renewal Ritual
The Beauty in the Basic Ritual
Bedtime
The Anoint and Account Ritual
The Bedtime Ritual: For Parents and Kids

Ritual for the Year
Seasons
Autumn Equinox
The Shake and Harvest Ritual
Winter Solstice
The Winter Bundle Ritual
Spring Equinox
The Release Ritual
Summer Solstice
The Bearing Fruit Ritual

Birthday
The Libation Ritual
The Rings Ritual: Solo
Survival Anniversary
The Feast of Thanks Ritual
Death Anniversary
The Memory Candle Ritual

Rituals for Letting Go
Weaning
The Sustenance Ritual
For the Mother or Birthing Parent
Losing a Tooth
The Dream Seed Ritual
Child Leaving Home
The Packing Ritual
Part 1: The Gathering of Gifts
Part 2: The Packing of the Suitcase
Part 3: The Unpacking of the Suitcase
Leaving a Job
The Leaving Generously Ritual
The Last Days of Work
The Storysharing and Storylistening Rituals:
After Leaving
The Storysharing Ritual: With Others
The Storylistening Ritual: Solo
Sabbatical
The Taking-a-Break Ritual
Part 1: The Departure Ritual
Part 2: The Sabbatical Ritual
Part 3: The Return Ritual
Moving from a Home
The Memory Feast Ritual
Retirement
Renewing Your Purpose Rituals
Part 1: The Leaving
Part 2: Retwixt and Between
Part 3: The Return

Rituals for New Beginnings
Becoming a Mother or Birthing Parent
The Care and Share Ritual
Becoming a Father or Non-Birthing Parent
The Fathering a Fire Ritual
Becoming a Brother or Sister
The Magical Doorway Ritual
Becoming a Grandparent
The Living Bridge Ritual
Baby Naming
The Cords of Connection Ritual
The Beholding Ritual
New First Name
The Climbed Up Ritual
New Last Name
The Linking Together Ritual
Puberty
The Edge Ritual: For Teens and a Mentor
The Big Task Ritual: For Teens and Community
The Side-by-Side Ritual: For Parents
Coming Out
The Sifting Ritual: For Those Coming Out
Part 1: The Nighttime Ritual
Part 2: The Morning Ritual
The Affection Ritual: For Parents, Friends, and Family of LGBTQI+ Children
A New Home
The Hello Home Ritual
The Altar of Stories Ritual
The Little Bit of Earth Ritual

Rituals for Loss
Losing a Friendship
The Putting It Down Ritual
The Mending the Friendship Ritual
Loss of a Pet
The Goodbye Companion Ritual
The Cutting the Collar Ritual
Miscarriage
The Bundle Ritual
Aging Childless
The Reflection Ritual
Divorce
The Unbinding Ritual: With the Ex-Couple
The Surrendering Ritual: Solo
Death and Dying
The Tending the Body Ritual: The Day Of
The Sheltering Grief Ritual: First Seven Days
The Memory Altar Ritual: First Month

Rituals for a Crisis
Surviving a Near-Death Experience
The Rise and Fall Ritual
Receiving a Diagnosis
The Earth and Sky Ritual: The Day Of
The Up and Out Ritual
The Online Ritual
A Global or National Crisis
The Broken Whole Bowl Ritual
Part 1: Breaking
Part 2: Shards
Part 3: Healing

Goodbye
Deep Bows
Bibliography
Index
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